I hold my hands up. I'm terrible at decision making. From the most basic to the biggest of decisions, it can take me ages to make my mind up.
Yes, it's great to have choice, and we've never had more choice than we do now. But sometimes it can be overwhelming. Even the weekly shop now comes with a multitude of choices... Do I want to buy free-range? Organic? Gluten-free? Shall I splash out on a premium product or stick to value? Maybe I should start that diet that I'm always putting off and go for healthy options.
I could spend ages pondering the benefits of wheatgerm bread over brown… but I've got things to do and places to be!
I don't worry so much about getting my decision wrong when it comes to shopping for food. However, when I need to make an important decision, it comes down to knowledge. I like to weigh up the pros and cons. Perhaps do a bit of research and ask around for advice. Yes, sometimes, this can mean that it takes me a while to actually reach a decision. But, once I do, I know that I’ve made the most informed choice that I can.
We wanted to see what how our friends and followers on social media approached decision making. So we asked you: "What techniques or strategies can you use to help you make better decisions?"
Most of you – like me – agreed that the best technique is to gather as much information as possible before making your decision. As Chris Hamilton, a mortgage loan officer from California, U.S., explains: "It's always good to have accurate, credible, and verifiable data. This way, your decisions are based on the concrete versus 'assumed to be credible.' Decisions can then be both thoughtful and purposeful."
Arzu Erkus, a fellow LinkedIn member and HR professional from Virginia, U.S., agreed with Hamilton’s advice, but added that remaining neutral was also key to making an informed decision. She said that "gathering intelligence – real intelligence, and not just information that will support your internal biases" was one of the most important steps to take when making a decision.
For others, strategic tools and more formal techniques were important. Facebook follower Ioana Adriana, for example, revealed that she found "gamified tools and strategy games" helpful, while Tim Broadhurst suggested that coaching was the way forward: "Get yourself a great coach (or a crystal ball)."
Mona Gallagher, however, advised that "emotional intelligence" and "soft skills" should not be forgotten in the decision-making process. She explained that while "hard skills are important as ever, in order to move forward as an organization, soft skills are an essential partner!" Her opinion was echoed by another of our Facebook followers, Ce Edge, who suggested, "Learning, knowledge, understanding, and caring guide decision making."
As always, our followers on Twitter responded with plenty of helpful hints and #mindtoolstips. Here's a selection:
Thanks to all of you who responded to our question on decision-making techniques. If you have any further tips or advice, please join in the #mindtoolstip conversation below.
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