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I see myself as both an unbending oak and a flexible reed depending on the situation, and depending on my stress levels. For some situations I can be flexible while for others I will not budge. Then, if my stress levels are high, I tend to get more inflexible / controlling ... which isn't a good thing and something I'm still working on!
i also see myself as both under depending circumstances and situations
I am like you Suhana that it depends on the situation as to how flexible I am or not!