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I can safely say, that even as a Salesperson within a company, being presented with 1000's of potential new contacts and clients in an environment like a trade show can be hugely intimidating. I spend a vast majority of my time speaking with people over the phone and via email so being put in front of people in such a busy, loud and intense environment is both exciting and terrifying in the same measure.
What I did learn very quickly however, was that it is in no way productive to barrel in telling each and every person who stopped by what, how and why you do what you do (which is your instinctive first response) but to find out why they are there, how they are looking to meet their needs and why they are approaching things in that way. You can then marry up your products/services features and benefits with these needs, and if you can't find a fit for your product, at least you have just gathered some vital information about how your potential clients think and are approaching particular struggles.
The sale is just a signature on a piece of paper, everything else is just a conversation, remember that and you will be golden!
Thanks Dean for sharing your experiences and reminding us that a sale really all starts with a conversation with another person!
Great article Keith Jackson, thanks for sharing your insights and photos!
What I have learnt from representing my organization at a conference is exactly in line with what Dean and yourself have experienced, which is the art of the conversation.
Whether you're selling goods or providing services, this type of face to face opportunity allows you to connect with your network on a substantially deeper level, especially when done comfortably and its not forced.
I've found that after that kind of interaction, your network is not only broadened but the communication across the distance becomes easier in that things get accomplished more steadily!
Thanks Karlene for sharing your experiences. I agree with you that communication does become easier once you have actually met someone face to face!
I relate to what Keith Jackson wrote. When I was younger I was painfully shy. I learned a very valuable lesson from a seminar I once attended: take the focus off yourself. Simply focus on the person standing in front of you with the mindset, "How I can best help this person or how can I best make this person feel comfortable?" It works.
Great lesson to learn Rebel. When we actually stop worrying and focusing on ourselves and instead focus on the other person, the exchange can flow so much more easily! I like the idea of the thought 'how can I make this person feel comfortable?' ... certainly could help shift your approach to the discussion.