Now that I'm an adult, I believe my actual desire was to belong. If I had been able to participate in more social activities with my peers, the opportunity might have been there
"Find your tribe!" The words were spray-painted across a huge banner at the entrance of the hotel. I was there only because we were attending a team building event of the company my husband worked for. I didn't realize that we were going to be part of a tribe too
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