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Using Imagery to Reduce
Stress Self-hypnosis
and Auto-suggestion
Thought Awareness, Rational Thinking and Positive ThinkingThese three related tools are useful in combating negative thinking. Negative thinking causes stress because it damages your confidence that you are equal to the task you face.Negative thoughts occur when you put yourself down, criticise yourself for errors, doubt your abilities, expect failure, etc. Negative thinking is the negative side of suggestion - it damages confidence, harms performance and paralyses mental skills.
Thought AwarenessThought awareness is the process by which you observe your thoughts for a time, perhaps when under stress, and become aware of what is going through your head. It is best not to suppress any thoughts - just let them run their course while you observe them.Watch for negative thoughts while you observe your 'stream of consciousness'. Normally these appear and disappear being barely noticed. Normally you will not know that they exist. Examples of common negative thoughts are:
Thought awareness is the first step in the process of eliminating negative thoughts - you cannot counter thoughts you do not know you think. Rational ThinkingOnce you are aware of your negative thoughts, write them down and review them rationally. See whether the thoughts have any basis in reality. Often you find that when you properly challenge negative thoughts they are obviously wrong. Often they persist only because they escape notice.
Positive Thinking and AffirmationYou may find it useful to counter negative thoughts with positive affirmations. You can use affirmations to build confidence and change negative behaviour patterns into positive ones. You can base affirmations on clear, rational assessments of fact, and use them to undo the damage that negative thinking may have done to your self-confidence.Examples of affirmations are:
Highly Recommended BooksFor an excellent book on stress management, try The Book of Stress Survival - How to Relax and Live Positively by Alix Kirsta. This is a very pleasant, well-presented, sensible approach to stress management. It covers many important areas completely ignored by most other books.
Using Imagery to Reduce
Stress Self-hypnosis
and Auto-suggestion
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