
Dr Mark Goulston, along with John Ullmen, is author of the book, "Real Influence: Persuade Without Pushing and Gain Without Giving In."
In this 32-minute interview with Mind Tools' Rachel Salaman, he explains why influence is more important than persuasion in today's business world. He describes four levels of listening, how to avoid some "human nature traps," and how heartfelt gratitude can help build lasting influence.
During this discussion, you'll learn:
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