Transactional analysis can make interactions more balanced.
Have you ever experienced a conversation like this?
Manager: Hey, did you finish that report yet? I have to turn it in to the executive team tomorrow, and I'd like a chance to read it over first.
Worker: Why are you always reminding me? I said I'd get it done, and I'll get it done!
Manager: Look, I really need it, so make it happen. And by the way, that kind of attitude is completely unnecessary.
Worker: (frowning and looking down) Well, you'll have it this afternoon, I guess, but I'll need to put a lot of other stuff on hold, so.
Sounds a bit familiar, right? This can not only be frustrating, but also make people feel that the lines of communication have broken down somewhere. Does the worker sound like a misbehaving child? And does the manager sound like a frustrated parent? You might be surprised to learn that this isn't too far from the truth!
This is where Transactional Analysis – the study of human interactions – can help. In this article, we'll introduce you to the concept of Transactional Analysis, and we'll show you how to use it to identify which roles you and your co-workers are using at any given time. We'll also go into some of the games that people can play when they use these roles.
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