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As the seasons change and the holidays approach, most of us find ourselves a little distracted. Thoughts of holiday plans and additions to our already full schedules can be both stressful and trying, making renewed focus a true challenge.
The tools and techniques you'll find at Mind Tools can help you sail through these times and other challenges with greater ease. Everything from time and stress management is covered on the Mind Tools site, with tools from these areas and many others (such as communications, leadership, project planning, decision making and more) covered in-depth on the site and regularly in the newsletter.
What's more, there's much, much more to come! Each day, with your help, we uncover new skills and techniques that you can use to "power up" different areas of your life and career. You'll see these coming through onto the site over the next weeks and months as we work hard to bring you fresh information, up-to-date techniques and proven tools that you can rely on as you climber higher and higher on the ladder of success. More about this in our next issue!
In this issue, we introduce you to 4MAT - a useful tool helping you to train people in a way that most suits their own preferred learning styles. This is essential if you're to help all members of your team reach their maximum potential (and not just the ones who are most "in tune" with the way you think).
And, in a guest article by Scot Aaron, we present the "Helium Freeze", a helpful visualization technique that helps you freeze out negative thoughts.
Also,
a point of embarrassment: In our last issue, we let online newsletter
readers know about our 7 day, 25% off launch offer for “How to
Lead”, but didn’t include this discount information in the
email version. To be fair, and so that all readers can take advantage
of this offer, we’re extending the offer for another 7 days (until
12 October - visit http://www.mindtools.com/cgi-bin/sgx2/shop.cgi?page=HowtoLead.htm
to find out more).
As always, we encourage you to share the information in these newsletters with anyone in your organization who you think would benefit from it. We also hope you will let us know if there is any topic you would like to see covered, or any applicable service or product you would like to read more about.
Best wishes, and enjoy this issue!
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Whether you're hiring a consultant to work with your team, or looking
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Enjoy the newsletter and the motivation skills quiz, and have an excellent
day!
James & Kellie
Why Use the Tool?
We’re all familiar with times in our life when we really “connected” with instructors, making learning a real pleasure and making acquisition of new skills almost effortless. And we’ll also remember times when we just weren’t “on the same wavelength” as someone we had to learn from. Learning became a difficult, unpleasant, slow chore.
And at times when we may have trained others, perhaps in a formal training role or in passing knowledge on to our teams, we’ve probably found teaching some people easy, while others seem to have difficulty even with really simple things.
What’s particularly frustrating is that the mismatches of style that cause many of these learning difficulties have long lasting effects, in terms both of personal outcomes and of team member and team performance.
4MAT is a different approach to instruction that seeks to overcome these differences in style, engage all learners, and present information in a format and using an approach which suits all.
If you are responsible for training and coaching team members or others (and most managers and professionals are, to some degree), then you need to know 4MAT and use it to a greater or lesser extent if you are to get the best from all of the people you are developing.
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Important
Ideas 1: “Learning Styles”
Now these terms are quite difficult to grasp and remember. Peter Honey and Alan Mumford proposed a similar approach with much more intuitive terms:
The argument is where an instructor caters to a learning style you like, you find learning quick and easy. But where an instructor has a different preferred approach from the one you like, learning can be difficult and unsatisfying. And as an instructor, while you might instinctively like one style, you’ll have to take the learning needs of people who prefer other styles into account if you’re to train them effectively. Important
Ideas 2: “Experiential Learning”
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4MAT (developed by Bernice McCarthy at www.aboutlearning.com) is a process you can use to train people in a way that suits all learning styles and which incorporates Kolb’s ideas on the stages of experiential learning.
Using the Tool:
At the heart of 4MAT is a 12-step learning cycle that learners go through as they learn new skills. Effective instructors work with this cycle, seeking to engage the learner; provide information, knowledge and theory; deliver the skills being taught; and cement the knowledge learned. This process is shown below:
During the first three steps of the cycle, your focus as an instructor is on winning the attention of your learners, and engaging their interest in the subject. You are seeking to help them understand the real value (to them) of what you’re saying, and get the learner to think about how what you’re saying fits in with and enhances his or her existing experience.
During steps four to six, you build learners’ knowledge, and encourage them to find out facts for themselves. In doing this, you help learners make connections between what they already know and what you are teaching. And by finding out facts for themselves, they learn the broader context into which information fits. This all helps to build a good theoretical foundation of the subject.
During steps seven to nine, you teach the practical skills that come from the theory, and encourage learners to test their understanding of the material. This is where learners confirm and refine their understanding, and apply and generalize the information they’ve learned.
Finally, during steps ten to twelve, you encourage learners to extend creatively their use of the skills you’ve taught. This gives practice in the new skills, and helps them reinforce and “cement” their learning.
By structuring a learning session using this approach, you can engage and satisfy people who learn best with all of the different learning styles:
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Example:
We’re not going to give an example here: Rather, we’re
going to ask you to think about this a little.
Which of the Honey and Mumford learning styles most describes your preferred way of learning (even if it is a bit of one, and most of another)? And when you think about the people you have to instruct or coach in your day-to-day life, what learning styles and aptitudes do they show? (Incidentally, try asking them which of the approaches they prefer!) What does this tell you about the teaching approach you should use?
And when you think back to past learning sessions you’ve experienced, were there approaches that worked well for you, and ones which fell flat? For example, are you a theorist, who was bored by practical work at school? Or a pragmatist who just couldn’t get on with pure mathematics? And were there teachers from whom you just couldn’t learn, who you now realize just weren’t on the same learning “wavelength” as yourself?
Again, what does this tell you about your instructional approach? And, knowing this, what are you going to do?
Summary:
At the heart of 4MAT is a twelve stage process which you can use to
structure a learning session to ensure that people with preferences
for different learning styles can get the most from them. By using
4MAT, you can adopt an approach that will help all of your people
learn effectively from you, not just those who happen to share your
preferred approach to learning.
In the first three steps of the cycle, your task is to win the attention of your learners and engage their interest.
During steps four to six, you give them information they need, and help them build their own knowledge of the subject.
During steps seven to nine, you teach the skills the learners need, and encourage them to test and apply these theories.
And during steps ten to twelve, you encourage learners to creatively extend the use of skills and internalize the knowledge they’ve gained.
We all know negative thoughts can build up pressure, activate unwanted emotions, and stop us from achieving our goals. Most of us also recognize that struggling to stay positive can sometimes skew our view of reality.
Ultimately, the goal should be to balance or align our lives, actualize our own potential and to share and grow, without letting negative thoughts and unwanted emotions plague our fight to stay positive and remain productive.
This said, now is the time for us to grow, not tomorrow, not next week, not next month. For each day we can grow a little more.
In striving for success, however, there is a technique, referred to as “Helium Freeze” which, when used correctly, allows for the “freezing” of negative thoughts, stopping them before they drift further into your mind and your work and wreak unwanted havoc.
A Starting Point
We all know about helium balloons. Helium exists as a component of our air. Higher percentages occur in natural gas deposits. When helium gas is compressed (like air in air conditioners) it can turn into a very cold liquid. In fact, liquid helium almost reaches absolute zero and provides the coldest temperatures we can get on Earth.
Now, apply this freezing method to negative thoughts. Simply immerse your negative thoughts, images and feelings in liquid helium; hence, the Helium Freeze.
Of course, this is a bit of a visualization process, as well as a easy technique, for while you cannot actually place your damaging thoughts in helium, you can use this little trick or thought process to become aware of your negative thoughts and to finally stop them in their tracks.
Expanding of the Technique Yields Stronger Results
Now, lets consider another dimension of this Helium Freeze.
How can we know for sure what the best outcome or ultimate future will be for us individually? For example, most of us would agree that more money would make life easier. However, what if acquiring more money leads to more distraction where we avoid learning and accomplishing what is best for us?
This is where we let the sun shine and consider the second part of the Helium Freeze. Take thoughts and, in your mind, project them straight into the center of the sun.
The rationale goes like this. The bulk of energy from the sun stems from the fusion of helium 3 to helium 4. [Fusions start with single protons of hydrogen to heavy hydrogen, until helium 3 (2 protons and 1 neutron) fuse to helium 4, releasing energy and 2 protons.] Lots of scientific words, I know, but stick with me here, for applying the principle makes great sense and it is easy enough to do.
All energies on Earth, including negative thoughts, can be thought to stem from helium fusions in our sun. Mentally freeze the thought with liquid helium. Send this frozen package into our sun’s center. Once placed there, you can revisit these thoughts at your convenience and go back and freeze past thoughts and images that may be applicable, yielding even stronger results.
On one hand, let the center of the sun represent energies being generated for our future on Earth. If a thought is meant to strengthen and empower, bonds will connect and direct power from the sun’s center.
On the other hand, let power in our sun’s center repel and eject negative, disempowering thoughts.
Combat Negative Thoughts – Applying the Principle
In summary, learn today how to finally put negative thoughts in their place.
Next, empower connections to your positive realities. Say you have to choose between a few possible directions. All can be positive, but only an unfolding of the future will ultimately show which choice is best. Freeze these possibilities and project them into the center of the sun and revisit as often as needed to make the most informed decision possible. This allows for more positive outcomes, while not tying up your brain with clutter. And, as you play the cards you are dealt by life, all will unfold as it should.
Now, just trust in your projections and allow reality to play itself out, keeping a close watch on your negativity and working to contain it when it surfaces, either by using the freeze technique or by any other means that works for you. The point is to simply combat negativity and to organize your thoughts in a more positive and productive manner.
And, finally, allow positive thoughts and events in life to inspire you and to affirm the course to take as you move forward on the path to happiness and success.
Scot
Aaron has written "Get Free from the Chains of Pain," and
"Love
Your Neighbors? Discover the Real World Religions".
The last book is available at amazon.com or ordered at bookstores. His
personal webpage is at http://scotaaron.com.
"How to Lead: Discover the Leader Within You" Offer Extension
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We have also been hard at work researching and writing about new tools and techniques, the first of which, 4MAT, is debuted in this edition. We have a long list of new tools that we are working on and you can look forward to seeing these on the Mind Tools site and in upcoming newsletters. As we get into a rhythm on this (we’re still not quite there yet) you’ll find useful new tools on the site almost every time you visit.
And as always, please keep letting us know what you would like to have researched and/or reviewed. Your input and support will continue to help us build Mind Tools as a resource that can help many, many people around the world achieve real excellence in their lives and careers.
Best wishes, and until next time!
James & Kellie
James Manktelow & Kellie Fowler
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