Think on Your Feet (and Last Day!)


Mind Tools Newsletter 71 - 3rd April 2007

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Welcome to our April 3rd Newsletter!

It’s well and truly Spring for those of us in the Northern Hemisphere, and it seems I'm not the only one who enjoys thinking afresh at this time of year!

Over the past week, we’ve welcomed many new members to the Mind Tools Career Excellence Club. Each new member has received his or her own Personal Development Plan Workbook. This has proved to be very popular, and it's a real pleasure to see so many people finding it useful!

With just ONE DAY TO GO to get this excellent, seasonal bonus offer for yourself, check out the Career Excellence Club today! Membership costs just US$1 for the first month, with no lock in at all, so you’ve absolutely nothing to lose. We’re looking forward to welcoming you!

On to today’s newsletter article: “Thinking On Your Feet”. This is an admirable ability, and can seem like a real gift, particularly when you're often in high pressure situations. However, it’s a skill and discipline that you can practice, and this article shows you how.

What's New?

Another skill I admire greatly is that of "facilitation", the art of guiding a meeting through to a successful conclusion. A good facilitator can make the difference between a successful, energizing meeting and a frustrating, failed one. With important meetings, this can make the difference between your organization racing ahead, or remaining mired in difficulty.

With this in mind, we have a great new article on facilitation this week. Far from thinking on his or her feet, a good facilitator must meticulously plan the meeting or event to meet its objectives, AND get the very best out of the people involved. Thinking on your feet may come in handy at the event itself, but it’s the careful design and planning, and skillful guidance and control of proceedings that make a good facilitator great. This article is provoking some interesting discussion at the Mind Tools Career Excellence Club too, and there's lots to be learned from this shared experience.

What’s New in the Career Excellence Club?

Also in the Career Excellence Club, we’ve been discussing many other great career-enhancing topics and resources, including:

  • Overcoming Cultural Barriers to Change;
  • Giving Feedback – a Bite-Sized Training lesson with Dianna Podmoroff;
  • Our Book Insight into “Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die”, by Chip and Dan Heath;
  • Project Milestone Reporting;
  • "The Fears That Hold Me Back" – a Coaching Clinic with Mind Tools coach Sharon Juden; and
  • Team Management Skills – a roundup of our top skills for new managers.

By focusing on a few of these topics each week, members can get a real boost to their careers. And by joining community discussions, they get help and support when they need it, and a truly interactive learning experience! If you too are ready for that next step, please check our membership offer - ONE DAY TO GO to get your Personal Development Plan Workbook!

Enjoy, and have a truly excellent week!

Best wishes! 

  

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James Manktelow and Rachel Thompson
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New Article
Thinking On Your Feet
Staying Cool and Confident Under Pressure

“So, Susan, your report indicates you support forging ahead with the expansion but have you considered the impact this will have on our customers? Surely you remember the fiasco in Dallas last year when they tried the same type of project?”

Yikes! If you’re Susan, you’re likely feeling under pressure! You have to answer the question and allay the CEO’s concerns about the disruption to customers. What do you do? What do you say? How do you say it? What if you can’t think of anything to say?

This is not an uncommon situation. Whether you are put on the spot while attending a meeting, presenting a proposal, selling an idea, or answering questions after a presentation, articulating your thoughts in unanticipated situations is a skill. Thinking on your feet is highly coveted skill and when you master it, your clever and astute responses will instill immediate confidence in what you are saying.

When you can translate your thoughts and ideas into coherent speech quickly, you ensure your ideas are heard. You also come across as being confident, persuasive, and trustworthy.

Confidence is key when learning to think on your feet. When you present information, give an opinion or provide suggestions, make sure you know what you are talking about and that you are well informed. This doesn’t mean you have to know everything about everything, but if you are reasonably confident in your knowledge of the subject, that confidence will help you to remain calm and collected, even if you are put unexpectedly in the hot seat.

Learning How to Think on Your Feet

The secret of thinking on your feet is to be prepared: Learn some skills and approaches, and do some preparation for situations that might put you under pressure. Then when you do find yourself faced with unexpected questions and debate, you’ll be ready to draw on these tactics and preparation, and so stay poised while you compose your thoughts and prepare your response. Here are some tips and tactics:

1. Relax
This is often the opposite of how you are feeling when you're under pressure, but in order for your voice to remain calm and for your brain to “think”, you have to be as relaxed as possible.

  • Take deep breaths
  • Take a second and give yourself a positive and affirming message
  • Clench invisible muscles (thighs, biceps, feet) for a few seconds and release.

2. Listen
It comes as no surprise that listening is critical to thinking on your feet. Why do you need to listen? To make sure you fully understand the question or request before you reply. If you answer too soon, you risk going down a line of thinking that is unnecessary or inappropriate. To help you with your listening remember to:

  • Look directly at the questioner
  • Observe body language as well as what is being spoken
  • Try to interpret what is being suggested by the question or request. Is this an attack, a legitimate request for more information, or a test? Why is this person asking this and what is the intention?

Tip:
Remember that the person is asking a question because he or she is interested. Some interest is positive – they simply want to know more – and some is negative – they want to see you squirm. Either way they are interested in what you have to say. It’s your privilege and pleasure not to disappoint them!

3. Have the Question Repeated
If you're feeling particularly under pressure, ask for the question to be repeated. This gives you a bit more time to think about your response.

At first glance people think this will only make them look unsure. It doesn’t. It makes you look concerned that you give an appropriate response. It also gives the questioner an opportunity to rephrase and ask a question that is more on point. Remember, the questioner may well have just “thought on his or her feet” to ask the question, so when you give them a second chance, the question may well be better articulated and clearer to all.

By asking to have the question repeated you also get another opportunity to assess the intentions of the questioner. If it is more specific or better worded, chances are the person really wants to learn more. If the repeated question is more aggressive than the first one, then you know the person is more interested in making you uncomfortable than anything else. When that’s the case, the next tip comes in very handy.

4. Use Stall Tactics
Sometimes you need more time to get your thoughts straight and calm yourself down enough to make a clear reply. The last thing you want to do is blurt out the first thing that comes to your mind. Often this is a defensive comment that only makes you look insecure and anxious rather than confident and composed.

  • Repeat the question yourself. This gives you time to think and you clarify exactly what is being asked. It also allows you to rephrase if necessary and put a positive spin on the request. “How have I considered the impact on customers in order to make sure they have a continued positive experience during the expansion?”
  • Narrow the focus. Here, you ask a question of your own to not only clarify, but to bring the question down to a manageable scope. “You’re interested in hearing how I’ve considered customer impacts. What impacts are you most interested in: Product availability or in-store service? “
  • Ask for clarification. Again, this will force the questioner to be more specific and hopefully get more to a specific point. “When you say you want to know how I’ve analyzed customer impacts, do you mean you want a detailed analysis or a list of the tools and methods I used?”
  • Ask for a definition. Jargon and specific terminology may present a problem for you. Ask to have words and ideas clarified to ensure you are talking about the same thing.

5. Use Silence to your Advantage
We are conditioned to believe that silence is uncomfortable. However, if you use it sparingly, it communicates that you are in control of your thoughts and confident in your ability to answer expertly. When you rush to answer you also typically rush your words. Pausing to collect your thoughts tells your brain to slow everything down.

6. Stick to One Point and One Supporting Piece of Information
There’s a high risk that, under pressure, you’ll answer a question with either too much or too little information. If you give too short an answer, you risk letting the conversation slip into interrogation mode. (You’ll get another question, and the questioner will be firmly in control of how the dialogue unfolds). When your reply is too long, you risk losing people’s interest, coming across as boring, or giving away things that are better left unsaid. Remember, you aren’t being asked to give a speech on the subject. The questioner wants to know something. Respect that and give them an answer, with just enough supporting information.

This technique gives you focus. Rather than trying to tie together all the ideas that are running through your head, when you pick one main point and one supporting fact, you allow yourself to answer accurately and assuredly.

7. Prepare Some “What Ifs?”
With a bit of forethought, it’s often possible to predict the types of questions you might be asked, so you can prepare and rehearse some answers to questions that might come your way. Let’s say you are presenting the monthly sales figures to your management team. The chances are your report will cover most of the obvious questions that the management team might have, but what other questions might you predict? What’s different about this month? What new questions might be asked? How would you respond? What additional information might you need to have to hand to support more detailed questions?

In particular, spend some time brainstorming the most difficult questions that people might ask, and prepare and rehearse good answers to them.

8. Practice Clear Delivery
How you say something is almost as important as what you say. If you mumble or use “umm” or “ah” between every second word, confidence in what you are saying plummets. Whenever you are speaking with people, make a point to practice these key oration skills:

  • Speak in a strong voice. (Don’t confuse strong with loud!)
  • Use pauses strategically to emphasize a point or slow yourself down
  • Vary your tone and pay attention to how your message will be perceived given the intonation you use
  • Use eye contact appropriately
  • Pay attention to your grammar
  • Use the level of formality that is appropriate to the situation.

9. Summarize and Stop
Wrap up your response with a quick summary statement. After that, resist adding more information. There may well be silence after your summary. Don’t make the common mistake of filling the silence with more information! This is the time when other people are absorbing the information you have given. If you persist with more information, you may end up causing confusion and undoing the great work you’ve already done in delivering your response.

Use words to indicate you are summarizing (i.e. “in conclusion,” “finally”) or briefly restate the question and your answer. So - what did I do to analyze customer impacts? I reviewed the Dallas case files in detail, and prepared a “What if” analysis for our own situation.”

Key points:

No one enjoys being putting on the spot or answering questions that you aren’t fully expecting. The uncertainty can be stressful. That stress doesn’t need to be unmanageable and you can think on your feet if you remember the strategies we just discussed. Essentially, thinking on your feet means staying in control of the situation. Ask questions, buy time for yourself, and remember to stick to one point and make that one point count. When you are able to zoom in on the key areas of concern, you’ll answer like an expert and you impress your audience, and yourself, with your confidence and poise.


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A Final Note From James

"Thinking on Your Feet" is something that terrifies many, many people. After all, you can practice your presentations to a point of perfection, but it's the free format time afterwards that can cause real angst and upset. Now you know how to plan to give a star performance!

Our next newsletter will be with you in 14 days time. This will feature "The Breaking Point", one of Bruna Martinuzzi's insightful articles on emotional intelligence, as well as taking a look at "Monte Carlo Analysis", an approach that can greatly improve the usefulness of forecasts.

And a final reminder that this is your last chance to get our Personal Development Planning workbook when you join our member's area, the Career Excellence Club. Click here to give it a try!

Have an excellent week!

James

James Manktelow

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