Where Goal Setting Goes Wrong
Goal Setting Summary
Achieving Goals and Feedback
Achieving Goals
When you have achieved a goal,
take the time to enjoy the satisfaction of having achieved the goal. Absorb
the implications of the goal achievement, and observe the progress you have
made towards other goals.
If the goal was a significant one, or one that you had worked towards
for some time, take the opportunity to reward yourself appropriately.
Feedback: Failure
Where you have failed to reach
a goal, ensure that you learn the lessons of the failure. These may be:
- that you didn't try hard
enough
- that your technique was
faulty and needs to be adjusted
- that the goal you set was
unrealistic
- etc.
Use this information to adjust
the goal if it was set too high, or to set goals to acquire new skills or
build stamina. Feeding back like this turns everything into a positive learning
experience - even failing to meet a goal is a step forward towards perfect
technique!
Remember that the fact of trying something, even if it does not work,
often opens doors that would otherwise have remained closed.
Feedback: Success
Where you have achieved a
goal this should feed back into your next goals:
- If the goal was easily achieved,
make your next goals harder
- If the goal took a dispiriting
length of time to achieve, make the next goals a little easier
- If you learned something
that would lead you to change goals still outstanding, do so
- If while achieving the goal
you noticed a deficit in your skills, set goals to fix this.
Remember too that goals change
as you mature - adjust them regularly to reflect this growth in your personality.
If goals do not hold any attraction any longer, then let them go - goal
setting is your servant, not your master. It should bring you real pleasure,
satisfaction and achievement.
Where Goal Setting Goes Wrong
Goal Setting Summary
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